Alex has been living in complete chaos for the past one month. His high-stress job, jam-packed schedule, and family responsibilities have made him very unstable. On the outside, he seemed to be living his best life as he tried to maintain composure, but on the inside, he was constantly overwhelmed. He regularly had sleepless nights, anxiety was his constant companion, and he lost his peace of mind.
One day, a friend introduced him to journaling as he had previously shared his own depressing experiences with him and how he was able to overcome through journaling. At first, it seemed like another addition to Alex’s overflowing plate. Since he had nothing to lose, he decided to try it out. What followed was a transformative journey that reshaped not only how he managed stress, but how he saw himself and the world around him.
Journaling, though simple, has a powerful ability to help us process, understand, challenge, and ultimately relieve our stress. When you write down your thoughts and feelings, you have a clear view of what they are about which helps you tackle them easily. The practice of journaling has gained popularity recently, and studies show that journaling can help reduce symptoms of depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) when individuals express and organize their thoughts.
Here are some practical tips for beginners and seasoned writers on how to use journaling to relieve your stress levels.
- Start Small, No Pressure
When Alex first started journaling, he felt lost as he didn’t know where to start or what to write. That feeling is common for any newbie, and it should be seen as normal. To get started, try setting aside just five to ten minutes of your day. Write whatever comes to your mind without taking note of your errors, sentence structure, or spelling mistakes. This initial “brain dump” is not about your literary quality; it is specifically about releasing what’s on your mind. Some people would prefer to use prompts like, “What am I grateful for today?” or “What’s been on my mind lately?” This approach takes the pressure off and lets you ease into the practice.
- Practice Gratitude Journaling
Gratitude journaling has become a very common practice today which has made many become more positive and hopeful. Research has shown that when one focuses on gratitude, it can significantly improve your mental health by shifting your attention from stressors to the positives in your life. Each day, jot down three things you’re most grateful for. They can be as simple as a sunny morning, a bird singing outside your room, a good cup of coffee, or a kind word from a friend. Over time, this habit rewires your brain to notice and appreciate positive moments. This will make your daily stress feel more manageable.
- Use Journaling to Uncover Patterns
For seasoned journalers, an excellent tip is to use your entries to look for recurring patterns in your thoughts and behaviours. For instance, if you tend to feel stressed on Mondays, or maybe your interactions with specific people or certain activities consistently appear in your journal as stressors. As soon as you recognize these patterns, you can be able to take actions to change these situations. You would find that when you avoid these triggers or reframe your responses to them, it will help you to relieve your stress in a great way.
- Write Out Your Worries and Let Them Go
One powerful technique is called “worry journaling”. When you feel overwhelmed, write down everything that’s stressing you out. Then consciously decide to let them go. After writing them down, you can squeeze the paper and throw it away freeing your mind from carrying the weight. This exercise helps you to externalise your anxieties, making them feel less immediate or overwhelming. Many journalers find it therapeutic as it is quite similar to throwing off a burden from their shoulders.
- Experiment with Different Forms
Journaling can take many forms, from traditional handwritten entries to voice recordings, drawing, or digital note-keeping. Some people prefer bullet journals for organization, while others love free-form narrative writing. You can experiment with any one of these if you’re not sure of the one that you prefer yet. What is important is that you get one that feels natural and enjoyable, one that you’re more likely to stick with without feeling stressed. Remember, there’s no “right” way to journal. The style you choose is whatever helps you to express and process your thoughts.
Finally, journaling can become an anchor as you get to unload your worries, sort through conflicting emotions, and even celebrate small victories. This habit will help you to face life’s challenges with more clarity and resilience. When you journal, you get to connect with yourself in a meaningful way and you might end up creating beautiful prose or recording life events which could inspire another person. Make journaling a part of your routine today so that you can find calm amidst the chaos, just like Alex did.
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